Muslim Inability to Accept Criticism

I often debate in various groups about Islam from a social perspective. Usually in groups run by Muslims I always get kicked out when the slightest bit of criticism is said to be an ‘insult.’ Many of these Islamic groups I debate in say they uphold freedom of speech and intellectual discussion, but the sub- text is (only if you agree with me).
The latest group I was brought into was Sincere Intellectual Discussions. I am not here to whine how I was kicked out, I simply don’t care. I am merely using this group as an example. I don’t think it was actually my view of their religion that upset them, but was rather my Facebook profile picture of the Kaaba with the Israeli flag on it. I think that probably started the hostility, but I suppose I had it coming.
I made a few posts, but one in particular had the admin in a raving mad fit accusing me of insulting Muslim beliefs as well as being a lowlife scumbag (in the same comment he accuses me of personal insults when he does it himself – ah the irony). Basically I had said I think Allah is a narcissistic egotistical mind fucking manic. I didn’t word it that crudely, but that was my argument in a nutshell and I gave reasons why. I believed Allah was very self-centered and gained followers playing psychological cognitive games.
I was met with an angry reply by the admin being accused of insulting Muslims, people there personally and other irrelevant things. I was said to be hateful and angry and to engage in ‘filthy’ talk. I personally think the admin should join debate Islam and see what sort of ‘filthy talk’ his brothers in Islam are saying. While this has happened to me in various groups, this is just another example of Muslim inability to take criticism or difference of opinion. I went straight to the point and explained that criticism is not hateful anger or personally insulting and that I have not personally insulted anyone in the group.
He continued to be repetitive of course, but we moved away from it and I continued debating and posting some comments on some other issues. Then one of the other critical debaters took a snap shot of the admin justifying infant killing in God’s holy divine plans because the infants would go to heaven. I remarked that then he should kill his baby daughter in his Facebook profile pic to save her from hellfire because as an infant, according to Islam, she is guaranteed heaven.
He started personally insulting the other critical debater for the snapshot calling him an idiot and some other crude things (yet complaining others insulted him when they didn’t) and banned me. When asked why I was banned by friends, he deleted the comments not wanting people to know about this breach of his own group rules and his own hypocrisy.
It’s just one of the many examples of religious inability to stand firm in the face of different opinions. Those that claim to uphold freedom of speech and intellectual debate will often turn hypocrite contrary to what they preach and make false accusations, take analogies and opinions out of their context and eventually ban the individual and try to cover it up. Like I said this is not the only group where this has happened. Personally I still think the hostility came from my Facebook picture, but even then the picture itself was testing the Muslim ability to take criticism.